If you have ever had this thought or said it out loud – I know what it feels like, I see you and I hear you. ​ I said this when I first started talking about courage… and sometimes this voice whispers back when I begin working with new clients. ​ So you’re 100% not alone. ​ If you find yourself wondering why you have not been able to achieve what you set out to achieve, how to get off the hamster wheel, how to make time for what you truly want, wondering how to get more clarity or confidence to be you, wondering why you don’t have any clients, and so on. ​ Please remember… ​ This is normal. You are not alone. ​ And if you need to shift your mindset or create a new strategy, please find support. ​ My mentor once asked me what gives me the right to coach people and be a … . ​ ~ and on this adventure of life I have experienced fear, uncertainty, failure, sadness, disappointment, disappointment ​ ~ Every time I choose to speak my heart, to step outside my comfort zone, to set boundaries in relationships, to reframe my thinking, to take action despite fear… I choose to reimagine my life and inspire others to act courageously. ​ ~ . – and be a single parent, start my business and seek support. ​ ~ – Though it was terrifying, my life was a rollercoaster, it was looking uncertain, yet I chose to keep my head held high and rise up strong. My dream was to find myself and come back to who I am after years of losing myself. I had a mantra – Just show up and look ahead. ​ ~ – in personal and professional life. Dared to dream and lead in all aspects of life I chose not to be in a hostage mindset but to live a life of possibilities. ​ ~ and I have lived the courage work of Brene Brown and done the work on myself. ​ Was it easy? No. But it is possible, yesss! ​ What about you? What inspires you to do what you do? Do share to inspire us! ​ ​ And if there is a coach or mentor or a friend who you think you can turn to, I encourage you to take action and reframe the question to… “Who are you NOT to do this?” ​ Have a courageous week!

There is no playbook for leadership. But the last 2 years have given us an opportunity to re-imagine how we lead and navigate through uncertain times. The future of leadership belongs to the brave – someone who dares to be vulnerable.    What is Vulnerability in Leadership? Dr. Brene Brown, the best-selling author including Dare to Lead and Daring Greatly, describes vulnerability as ‘engaging in life, being all in, dedicating yourself to something.’  She says that it is not about winning, and it is not about losing. Its about having the courage to show up and be seen.  For me, the perfect symbol of vulnerability is the Japanese art of Kintsugi.  Broken pottery is mended with lacquer mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum. Instead of trying to mend the pieces invisibly, hiding the fact that they were ever broken, the cracks are transformed into decorations. The pieces become more valuable because of their flaws. This is the moment when we can experience vulnerability as a superpower. When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we are not pretending, we are not hiding—we are simply present with whatever is going on inside us.  Is Vulnerability a strength or a Weakness? Many leaders I coach tend to question this approach and think they need to be invincible, have all the answers and be seen as problem solvers. They equate vulnerability as failing and as a weakness. It’s so easy to get caught up in the treadmill of living the way we think we ‘should’ live that we fail to step back from the busy-ness of our lives and reflect on what we truly want to do.   I remember when my client SK stepped up to lead a function in Asia Pacific region for a global healthcare Org. She held the belief that she needed more knowledge & experience to be inspiring in her role. And to gain the trust of the team, she needed to have all the answers, never make mistakes & always make the right decisions.  She worked on her mindset and stepping away from the threadmill and learnt to be more authentic in her conversations. Breaking the chains of perfectionism was liberating and she joyfully embraced vulnerability and the results were powerful.   She gave herself permission to move from ‘being right’ to being curious. As a result, she experienced some incredible insights and results. She believes that staying real and being true to herself is one of the most courageous battles she has ever fought.   She stopped trying too hard as she took them on a journey of self-learning, with her watching their back.  This allowed her to stay out of judgment (of herself and others) & reduce her anxiety to perform as a leader. She was now naturally making genuine connections, building more trust and attracting more success for her team and consequently herself! How to be Vulnerable?  Here are a few simple yet catalytic first steps to build your courage muscle. Open up: Talk about yourself and the experiences that have shaped you.  Vulnerability is not full disclosure. Choose your boundaries. Speak up:Say what you are feeling, not what you think people want to hear. Ask for help. Get support. Choose gratitude.  Admit your mistakes. They are learning opportunities. Do things that stretch you outside your comfort zone. Over the years, I have discovered that many leaders pretended to be strong and confident, ultimately losing touch with their purpose and values and who they want to be. This inspired me to create a signature Unlocking Courageous Leadership Program that was based on the belief -“If you own your story, you can write a new beginning”. If you are curious about what it could feel like to bring your whole self to leadership and how being authentic and vulnerable can help you be a better leader, come and join one of our upcoming workshops. You can email us at farah@interactconsulting.in to reserve your space now or request more information.