Turning Expectations into Agreements

As leaders, it’s easy to fall into the trap of assuming others will naturally understand and meet our unspoken or vague expectations. When those expectations go unmet, frustration follows, and we might respond by either disengaging or taking on the task ourselves.

Expectations are like fine pottery. The harder you hold them, the more likely they are to crack.” – Brandon Sanderson, The Way of Kings

True leadership means co-creating clear agreements that foster a culture of mutual respect and shared goals, rather than just issuing expectations. Turning expectations into agreements is a game-changer.

This has been one of the most powerful distinctions I’ve learned from Steve Chandler. My clients often share that applying this single concept makes a profound difference in all their relationships—business or personal.

If you’ve ever felt the gap between what’s expected and what’s executed, maybe it’s time to choose a more creative way to lead.

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