I am NOT busy!
I am doing what I love, with whom I love.
Have you heard me say this before? Maybe once. Maybe a dozen times.
Because I hear it all the time: “Are you busy these days?” “You look like you’re so busy!” Or, “I didn’t want to bother you. You must be busy.”
And every time I hear that, I pause. Not because I’m getting triggered. But because that word busy doesn’t feel true anymore.
Busy feels rushed. It feels reactive. It feels like I’m spinning inside a life I didn’t consciously choose.
But the truth is… it’s a choice.
- I’m doing what I love, with whom I love.
- And that is a blessing I will never reduce to the word “busy.”
I create my calendar. I shape my days with intention. I say yes to what fuels me — not what drains me. This is the kind of work that fills my soul and stretches me in the best possible way.
When I say “I’m not busy,” I’m not trying to be poetic. I’m honoring the truth I’ve worked hard to claim:
- I’m feeling aligned.
- I’m creating from purpose & serving with joy.
- I’m surrounded by people who light me up.
- And I choose this every single day.
So if you’ve heard me say it and wondered… now you know why.
And maybe, just maybe, it invites you to pause and ask: If busy isn’t your truth …what is?
Remember, the most powerful way to live is to inspire or move someone to live better.
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I am a courage catalyst, executive coach, facilitator, speaker and founder of Interact Consulting.

